At elementary school and summer camp, I could spend a whole recess or lunch period playing hand-clapping games — Miss Mary Mack, The Spades Go — and many others that I haven’t thought about in perhaps two decades. Until today.
We went to the Obim primary school to plant trees with our hosts in Lira, AJWS grantee Concerned Children & Youth Association. CCYA runs a number of innovative programs for children and young adults in the area who are vulnerable as a result of poverty, but also as a result of Joseph Kony’s brutal stronghold in Northern Uganda with his Lord’s Resistance Army.
We arrived at the school for a day of digging in the sun: wide-brimmed hats, work gloves, long-sleeved pants and shirts, sunscreen and snacks. The children were dressed in their school uniforms: royal blue dresses (the girls) or shirts and shorts (the boys). Most were barefoot.
There were more differences than just the things we wore — there were cultural, economic, educational, and religious contrasts as well. So too were there language obstacles, though many of the children — even as young as 6 — spoke English quite well. And yet these differences faded away when during a break we started asking the children how to say “tree” (yat) and about a hundred other nouns in their local dialect, Luo. The children found our attempts to pronounce the proper words hilarious, and this led to a round of us singing all kinds of American songs mixed with Luo words including a particularly animated rendition of “Old Macdonald.”
This was all fun and good, but it was the next game that marked the highlight for me: Two girls turned to each other, clasped their hands together, and started singing a Luo song while clapping out a sequence of familiar movements. Hands side to side, clap, hand to side, snap, clap, clap.
This, in a school without water or electricity, in a village populated by thatched roof huts, in a region thousands of miles away from home was the very same game I’d played growing up. Different tune, different language, different everything — and yet same claps, same smiles.
Marissa Miley Friedman is an author and science writer based in New York and a traveler on the Global Circle trip in Uganda.














Thanks for coming to uganda,we were so very happy to recieve you as CCYA team,regards.
Beautiful!
Thanks for appreciating the plight of the children in Obim